Monday, May 6, 2013

Happy People

Orang perempuan ni, kadangkala macam lautan biru yang tenang.. Bila diuji, kita boleh bertukar menjadi ribut taufan dan lautan bergelora.. Kan? I think it's a gift. Our emotions can be so volatile, yet we are able to manage it pretty decently at times. 

This morning I woke up sooo happy. Seeing Ashayr's face and seeing the husband off to work, is a nice warm feeling. Then, it took a turn, triggered by something I saw. Felt so down, called the husband who was at work and cried over the phone. Blame it on the hormones, but, it was pretty bad. The husband calmed me down and assured me that things are going to be alright. Got myself together, put on some nice clothes and I left for work. Then, came a nice surprise, from a client that I was servicing. VERY NICE SURPRISE. But cannot share lah cos paisey and I don't want to sound like a show off. Hu hu hu. =P

My takeaway for today is to be THANKFUL. The husband said.. Happy people are thankful and thankful people are HAPPIER. Whoa. Sesekali suami ku bersuara, boleh tahan.. ;)

He never fails to try and make me feel better about things. Sometimes, that is all we need. REASSURANCE. Orang perempuan ni suka dengan perhatian dan kata-kata kasih sayang. It's not always about the money tau. It's about appreciation and words of comfort. To me, at least. 

Again, I tried to manage my emotions, spoke to God and I felt better. I know HE loves me and won't forsake me. 

The next coming weeks will be exciting and nerve-wrecking for me as I recently embarked on something new and unexpectable. I hope this decision will be a right one, for a greater future. I can't wait to share it with you all, but let's wait till the right time comes before I reveal it. :)

Happiness is a choice. You can choose to be happy with what you have or you can choose to whine and gloat abut all the "unhappiness" you're facing in your life right now. Senang cakap lah kan, pengurusan emosi ni adalah satu kemahiran yang boleh dipupuk.. Cheyyy! ;)

Unless you're just naturally happy, or been taught how to chose which mood serves you best in the moment, there's no reason you can expect to have mastered the incredibly wide range of emotions a person can feel.

You see, managing emotions starts with baby steps. First, you need to identify that emotion, be conscious about it and manage it accordingly so that you can shift that emotion to a positive one.
I told my husband I felt sad. I knew I was down and had to get put of this terrible feeling. He told me to think about moments and things that made me feel happy and better about myself. Like ASHAYR and HARIS! In which I did. 


These boys make me happy and i'm blessed. So, perasaan ribut taufan tu dah takde and I hope I can fall asleep tonight in peace and serenity. Heh. 

The best picture that describes my feelings today is this one below...




Haha! Cute, right? So, CHILL. Take it easy, breathe and step out a happier person.  

"SENYUM, tak perlu kata apa-apa!"  and stay HAPPY PEOPLE! :)


2 comments:

  1. Hi Nona

    I hope u have felt better & happier by now. Take a step at a time & hopefully u will achieve whatever u are hoping for.

    That's e least a fan of yours from afar can do for u. Stay sweet & smiling always .. Cheers!

    With lots of hugs & kisses .. AnnaGunn

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  2. hi sis.. my gut feeling says no 2 is coming. hehehe... well my gut feeling might be wrong. :) always remember to end or day with Alhamdulillah.. that we manage to pull thru one more day. Coz whatever happen to us that day is carefully planned by Allah for us. So breathe.. coz u survived for another day..

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